When meeting and getting to know a potential partner, certain safety
precautions should be observed. You want to have fun and get a positive vibe,
but how do you do this without compromising your own personal well being? Read
on to find out about key dating safety tips that will allow you to enjoy
yourself and get to know your date without putting yourself at risk.
First and foremost, you should meet your date out at a public place, such as
a restaurant or coffee shop. Get a good feeling about this person before you
have him or her meet you at your home. This can take several dates, so don't
rush to reveal where you live. You can also bring a friend to double date, so
they can meet this person too. What we often idealize can objectively be seen by
a good friend.
Another way to protect yourself is to bring along a charged cell phone in
case you run into trouble. It might be something as innocent as a flat tire, but
in a pinch, this safety device can save your life. Try not to be isolated
somewhere with someone new until you feel safe and comfortable with them. Tell a
friend or family member you are going out on a first date, and give them your
cell number. Also have a number where they will be while you're on your date. Of
course, keep the cell phone turned on!
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Initially, resist the urge to go home with the person. Wait until you feel
safe with them and know their intentions. Several dates give you the opportunity
to learn more about him or her. Phone conversations help you see your date in a
clear light. Allow this time to reveal the safety of your situation, and trust
your instincts: no matter what this person has bought you, or how intoxicated
you are, don't go home with them right away. And never leave a bar or other
place where you've been drinking with someone you just met.
Some helpful online dating safety tips include writing to and getting to know
someone before a first date. This is an advantage with online dating because you
get to "test drive" a potential mate before meeting in person. Use
this opportunity to ask questions, learn values, and decide if you want to meet
this person. Again, do not reveal too much personal information such as your
address, or initially your home phone number. Perhaps you can have this person
call you at your work to meet you afterwards. Follow the guidelines for standard
dating safety, mentioned above, and also pay attention to the vibe you are
getting. Thankfully, it's easier to change your email address for online dating
than it is to change your home phone number.
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